Aries

Powerful, charismatic and a real star, Aries is the first sign of the zodiac and quite a charmer, in love and in romance. Some of the stereotypes often linked to the Aries personality are true and some aren't.

The Aggressor
It's true. Aries are aggressive. But more specifically, Aries is a go-getter. In romance or business, Aries always aims to come out on top. He's instinctive and a great negotiator, with a natural gift of organizing things like a conference or interviews. People gravitate towards him because he's never boring. Unfortunately, many Aries never quite get to the point where they're actually happy with their work. Somehow this always affects their love situations. In truth, it's never really about the money though that's always a nice incentive. Instead, it has more to do with recognition and status. Yes, work is very important to Aries - man or woman. And there's always a very good reason for this.

Aries are the children of the zodiac. However mature an Aries is, she will want something not quite within her reach. Unfortunately, this affects her way of dealing with romance. When she's not contented with her work life. She become moody and lose her enchanting sense of humor. When this happens, watch out! Aries can be as crabby as Cancer or Scorpio.

The Perceptive Eye
Aries is practical about his options. He intuitively knows what he can and cannot have and what he's capable of achieving. Therefore, Aries will attack a problem at full force but with a discerning eye. He does this because if he doesn't conquer and win, his ego will have a hard time of it. He can rush head-on into any romantic or business situation, becoming unduly wowed by his partner or prospect. But Aries will eventually catch on, grasping the situation completely in definitive terms, good or bad. If it's latter, he'll be out the door without a second glance.


The Secret Aries Man
What to do with a male Ram? You've got your work cut out for you. Aries men mostly prefer rough and tough over slow and sultry, they just don't have the patience. But they can hold out. So, if you're the type who likes a man to take charge and dominate you in bed, here's your guy.

He may be interested in knowing what makes you tick and what you like. Tell him, but do it with grace. You can compliment him first on what a fabulous lover he is, then suggest or hint at things you like, letting him believe that it was really his idea in the first place. Aries will take your cue and excel at whatever task you place in front of him. In fact, he'll love the idea of any good challenge.

The Aries Lover

Unfortunately, the typical Aries man can be egocentric in bed too. Don't wait wait a year to let this problem slip out in a verbal fight. Put an end to it immediately! Aries will be devastated by the mere hint that he's been doing something wrong in the sack, though at the same time he probably won't believe it. Truth is, Aries man may be more wrapped up in his own needs, but he'll be more than happy to meet yours too. He just has to understand what those requirements are, and that means you have to clue him in. He's not a bad lover. It's more than that, at times, he's an oblivious one.

Bedroom Play

When is comes to bedroom play, Aries like to try everything once. If he hints or talks outright about trying a little menage-a-trios, chances are, he plans on doing it, with or without you. Aries men take their own words seriously. He might tell you it's getting late and you'd better get home now or he'll be too tired to make love. If he says it, it's a sure bet he means it. He won't go back on his words. Aries men should be believed when they say something, in bed or otherwise. Heed the warning, and adjust accordingly. Are you ready for the male Ram?


The Secret Aries Woman
Like her male counterpart, the female Ram loves to get attention but needs a good challenge. Compliment her excessively and you're making a mistake. She'll like you and enjoy your company, but she'll never go to bed with you. Don't be her personal throw rug. She'll walk all over you and leave you out to dry. She wants a strong man, one who will stand up to her but who will allow her to take the lead.

The difference here is between allowing her to and letting her do what she wants. An Aries woman will know when you're controlling her. If you're "allowing" her, she'll respect you more and believe you've got the power. If you're "letting" her get away with things, she'll push the envelope further, thinking you're too weak for her. Then she'll go looking for another man worthy of her affection.

Bedroom Escapades

Like other Fire signs, Aries expect her man to be superhuman in the bedroom. Outside, she wants to be the dominant force. In bed, though, she wants her man to take the lead. Though she believes herself to be in total control at all times, she secretly wishes for an experience that will make the earth shake, causing her to lose it.

Like the Aries man, and Aries woman is a little wild and is curious enough to try out all new sexual adventures, positions and exploits. A slow, soft, sweet love making session will only irk an Aries woman. She'll be left with something similar to a metaphorical itch. She'll want to scratch it. And that of course, will leave you in the dust.

Keeping the Excitement

She'll look for a man who's not googly-eyed over her. An Aries woman wants to respect and look up to you as a real he-man. In fact, telling an Aries woman that you love her too soon is a sure way to get her out the door. Chances are, she won't be back. This woman is all burning passion and fire, and she needs the same in sexual mate. The key here is to always keep things exciting. One thing is for sure; She'll do the same for you.